If its enabled in the config, and the ports are forwarded, it should show up in ASE.
What?
When you connect to a network, it assigns you an IP, like a phone number..
Unlike phones, you can connect to yourself, by using any of your own IPs.
127.0.0.1 is a loopback address that doesn't use any network, it's basically for testing things.
Your router address is what your router has assigned you, and your regular IP is what your ISP assigns you.
Comprendez?