ok guys i am driving my self nuts....
:UPDATE:
i went to portforward.com or something, i put my roter model and shit and i got instructions to setup MTASA ports. i did MTA 1, MTA 2, and MTA3 ports. i also made a STATIC IP in internet connections. i dont think i have a firewall. and THE DAM SERVER STILL DOES NOT SHOW UP IN THE BROWSE LIST.
like 3 months ago i had mtasa and i did a server that showed up in the list. but back then i didnt have a router.