ExtremeTony

1) Your friends can't find it becouse you CHANGED NAME. 2) Maybe you are entering slow connection servers or you have slow connection.

Your server is on the list! You probably can't see him becouse you were checking from your own computer. Well you can't see your server from your computer becouse you can connect him from internal ip, but others use you external ip.

What is your server name?

1.0.4! You have to update to the lastest version!

Well what is your server version?

Try to check your ports here: https://nightly.multitheftauto.com/ports/